Find someone who will fight for you, not with you. Find someone who will join you with your random craziness and weirdness, not someone who will constantly remind you that you should act properly, at all times. Find someone who will comfort you when you’re upset, not someone who will easily believe you when you say “I’m okay”. Find someone who will ask you for choices, not someone who will decide on their own without informing you. Find someone who will constantly remind you how good you are as a person, not someone who brings back what you’ve done in the past every time you will have an argument. Find someone who will do everything to win you back, even though you kept on pushing him/her out of your life. Find someone who will not let your past ruin your relationship, not someone who will judge you upon hearing it. Find someone that you can share your secrets with, not someone who doesn’t even care how your day went. Find someone who will be happy with your success, not someone who will make you feel like he/she is competing with you. Find someone who will constantly make you happy when you’re feeling sad, or someone who won’t let the day end without fixing what’s wrong, not someone who will let you face life alone. Find someone who will accept you for who you are, your negativity, your insecurities, your struggles. Find someone who will remind you that it’s okay to make mistakes, that you are not perfect and neither he/she is. Because that’s life. You alone can decide for your own happiness, every relationship has problems, has struggles. There will be pain, heartbreaks, expectations and disappointments, but these are what makes each one real. These are what makes a couple fight together. And not everyone can see the value of it, until it was taken away from them. If you haven’t found that person yet, go out there and find it.